aligned with love:
the science of healing & deep connection
A Masterclass
heal your inner child, so you can
Heal the generational wounds that have shaped your beliefs about love, relationships, and self-worth.
Understand how childhood conditioning affects your ability to attract and sustain healthy love.
Reconnect with your feminine power through mind-body healing techniques and guided exercises.
Break free from invisible barriers keeping you from intimacy, trust, and emotional fulfillment.
Transform your relationship patterns by shifting from self-protection to deep, meaningful connection.
Learn how to create relationships where you feel cherished, supported, and emotionally safe.
Step into the fullest expression of yourself—soft, open, and aligned with love.
Healing is the gateway to everything you desire. Your softness is your power. Your vulnerability is your strength. And the love you crave is waiting on the other side of this healing journey.
Align · 4 Lessons
12 Hours 2 Days
the masterclass
Do you feel like you’ve mastered every area of your life—your career, your achievements, your outward success—but something is still missing?
You already know how to attract men. Yet, if you’re stuck in old patterns and survival mode, you might be attracting the wrong kind of connection. Deep down, you yearn for a love that is aligned with who you truly are—a love that nourishes your soul rather than draining it.
The Problem: Beyond Surface-Level Success
For years, you’ve been conditioned to believe that being “strong” means doing it all alone. You’ve learned to hustle, to overcompensate, and to shield your vulnerability with an impenetrable façade. But this survival mode comes at a high cost.
Constantly:
Feeling emotionally exhausted despite outward success.
Repeating relational patterns that leave you unfulfilled.
A void—a sense of inadequacy—stemming from internalized oppression that influences every aspect of your life.
The struggle to form intimate, deep relationships because of a protective shell that keeps you from being truly seen.
You deserve better. You deserve a life where you not only succeed but also experience authentic, nourishing love and connection.
The Transformation: A Journey of Self-Mastery and Healing
Imagine waking up each day with clarity about who you are, embracing both your strength and your softness. Imagine a life where:
Self-mastery meets emotional healing—where you truly understand your patterns, heal your wounds, and celebrate your inherent worth.
Vulnerability is celebrated as a strength that opens the door to deep, conscious connections.
Divine connection guides you to align your inner world with the love you desire.
This masterclass is not a “how-to get a man” seminar. It’s a transformational experience that starts with you—the most important relationship you have is with yourself. When you heal and align with your true self, you set the stage for receiving love that honors your value.
What You’ll Learn in This 2-Day Masterclass
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The Science of Self & Womanhood
Session 1:
Understand your unique identity and what has shaped your beliefs about love and worth.
Explore the patterns and behaviors you inherited—without judgment—and begin to reframe them.
The Science of Spirit & Mind-Body Healing
Session 2:
Dive into practices that connect your mind and body, helping you access your intuition and inner wisdom.
Learn meditation, reflection, and actionable steps to nurture your spirit
The Science of Family & Generational Patterns
Session 3:
Uncover the familial roots of your relationship patterns and learn how to break free from inherited cycles.
Heal from past wounds to open up to healthier, more fulfilling connections.
The Science of Conscious Connection & Divine Mating
Session 4:
Shift from simply attracting any partner to aligning with a partner who shares your vision and values.
Cultivate strategies for intentional, soulful connection that supports both your personal and relational growth.
The Results: What Transformation Looks Like
By the end of this masterclass, you will:
Recognize and break free from the cycles that keep you in survival mode.
Cultivate a deeper, more nurturing relationship with yourself.
Experience greater emotional clarity and resilience.
Attract and maintain relationships that are built on genuine connection, trust, and mutual support.
Embody the power of softness and vulnerability—key ingredients for lasting, fulfilling love.
“You are a divine, spiritual being who is having a human experience. things and accomplishments are fun to have, but you are never to base your value on extrinsic things.”
Itohan
MEET YOUR Healing guide
Itohan
Healing Guide and Spiritual Teacher
I’m Itohan, a healing guide and spiritual teacher dedicated to empowering high-achieving Black women to break free from survival mode and reclaim their innate softness and self-worth. I understand the weight of carrying generational wounds—I've been there myself. For years, I believed that being “strong” meant suppressing vulnerability and pushing through alone. But through my own transformative journey, I learned that true power comes from healing the mind-body connection and embracing a life of ease, love, and deep connection
My work is rooted in the belief that healing isn’t about sacrificing success; it’s about realigning with who you are at the core. I help women uncover and release inherited patterns, cultivate self-awareness, and build conscious, fulfilling relationships. Whether through 1:1 clarity calls, transformative masterclasses, or my comprehensive 6-month program, I guide my clients to tap into their intuitive wisdom and step into a future where they don’t just survive—but truly thrive.
If you’re ready to break free from the cycles that no longer serve you and step into a life of authenticity and love, I’m here to help you every step of the way.
Real Stories, Real Change
Hear from women just like you who’ve transformed their lives:
The work I’ve started with Itohan has been incredible. As someone who has been unable to open up to anyone for a lifetime, Itohan has somehow chiseled through walls that have held me prison. We fingered out the many “whats” that were ailing me. This required me to open up. Itohan seems to have a magic power that allowed me to do so. Then unearthing the “why’s”, by digging deeply into my past, my child. Knowing why helped us to get to the work I need to embark on. Before working with Itohan, I really tried to do the work on my own. I wanted to find my inner happiness, to not be angry and on edge all the time. I wasn’t getting results and I truly didn’t feel like things would change but now I have hope which feels great. I am very grateful and happy to have the opportunity to work and grow with Itohan.."
– Name Wittheld for Privacy
"I always thought I had to be the strong one, but this masterclass showed me that my true strength lies in embracing my softness. I now experience a level of connection I never thought possible."
– T. Wilson
Itohan is a masterful counselor and spiritual wellness guide. I’ve been to several therapist and counselor for a few decades, and have progressed in mental wellness over the years. However, nothing I’ve been to has compared to the full clarity and healing I received while working with Itohan. My mental and spiritual psychology advanced; elevating me to a higher state of self. I strongly encourage and recommend anyone, particularly women of color, to seek Itohan as their person of counsel."
_SaJdah Ali
Ready to transform your life?
If you’re tired of settling for relationships that don’t honor your true worth, it’s time to invest in yourself. This is your opportunity to break free from the old patterns and step into a life of alignment, love, and deep connection.
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